Title: When Instant Isn’t

Date: 4/27/2008

Texts: Exodus 16.1-3   Mark 8.1-13

Series: When Faith Is Hard: Delayed Gratification

Dr. William M. Smutz

Soccer fields were an afterthought for the county park system where we lived in Kansas , where our boys played recreational soccer….And the parking lots attached to the fields were even more of an afterthought….Containing nowhere near enough space for the thousands of cars that passed through the lots in the course of a Saturday or Sunday.                                                        

While action on the soccer field could get pretty intense, it was in the parking lots where the real excitement truly happened…as parents battled one another for a parking space close to the field where their child was playing. 

Over the course of eight spring and fall soccer seasons I witnessed amazingly rude and depressing adult behavior weekend after weekend.   People would take up multiple spaces to avoid having the doors of their expensive cars dented…..They would cut one another off while maneuvering for a space; ignoring turn signals and cars already waiting for a particular spot to open up.  And then, in the aftermath of such a skirmish, the victor and his or her family would exit the car with a haughty air of privilege, ignoring the horn honks and gestures from those they had supplanted….While those who had been cut off, proceeded to tear through the lot like a bat out of hell, not caring for the pedestrians they nearly ran down…desperately searching for another spot.                       

For me, the truly tragic part of this whole melodrama, was the false sense of entitlement that drove it.  Most of the people who entered those lots on a soccer game day expected to have convenient parking waiting for them; the considered it something they deserved…..And when that expectation wasn’t immediately gratified, many of them flew into a rage, not unlike the temper tantrum of a three year old.                                                     

Lest I just appear to be beating up on soccer parents, I see the same sense of entitlement among people just about everywhere I go these days….In parking lots, at the grocery store, in the mall, on the road, waiting in any line….And when this sense of entitlement is coupled with its evil twin, immediate gratification, the results get even uglier! 

As wonderful as technology is….as wonderful as the high standard of living we enjoy in comparison to most of the world….as wonderful as instant communication can be….These aspects of our society, which have in many ways become cultural expectations, create a false sense that our every need can and should and will be taken care of right away; that every problem can be solved by pushing a button or flipping a switch or calling customer service; that every personal crisis can be resolved by mumbling a quick prayer of petition…..

And when instant isn’t, when gratification doesn’t materialize fast enough, how do we usually react?  We often get angry, don’t we?   After all, we’ve worked hard and paid our dues or entry fee, and we want what we want when we want it!                                                  

I use to think that the desire and expectation for immediate gratification was only a problem of the modern world, a creation of 20th and 21st Century America ….That was, until I read our scripture lessons for today.  In Exodus, God has just freed the people of Israel from slavery.  They are only a few days into their new journey of freedom; and despite all they have seen….all the marvelous and amazing things God has done in order to bring this people out of Egypt , their memory has already grown selective!  They look at the wilderness around them and start complaining.

They don’t trust or don’t believe that God will continue to watch over them…..

Why has God brought us here?  Where are we going to get food?  Moses is just leading us to the grave!  At least in Egypt we had plenty to eat!!  The people of Israel ’s inability to discern God’s presence in the ordinary and the every day, causes them to deny God’s activity in the extraordinary and miraculous. (Fretheim, Exodus, p 181) 

They don’t see the goodness of God within them; they don’t feel how and where God is at work in their lives right now; they don’t see God’s handiwork in creation…..And because they can’t see the signs of God’s presence in the ordinary and mundane, they don’t take seriously God at work for them, in things like the plagues that forced the Egyptians to set them free; and in their crossing of the Red Sea.  The people so want immediate gratification – feed us now – that they fail to see what God is already doing for them.                                                       

In our Mark lesson, Jesus feeds hungry people in the wilderness – providing food for them, just as God provided food for their ancestors long before.  Though in this instance the people don’t complain beforehand; and accept what is given with gratitude.  After the meal Jesus goes into town, and runs into some of the Pharisees, the religious leaders of his day.  In their defense, the Pharisees probably weren’t at the mass feeding, didn’t experience it first hand….But surely they heard about it.  It’s hard to lay out a spread for so many, and word not get around.  

Right off the bat, the Pharisee’s ask Jesus for a sign from heaven.  They apparently have a list of things that they consider to be such a sign, and they don’t think he can do anything from their list.  They want to trip Jesus up; they want him to perform a magic trick; they want it right now, immediately……just for them! 

Obviously feeding 4,000 or more people with only seven loaves of bread and a few fish isn’t on their list of signs.  I think Jesus’ response is great – he sighs deeply; some translations say he groans; probably with a not so subtle hint of disgust, and then he leaves town.                                      

In my experience, faith can get really hard, when I want God to do something on my time frame – which is usually immediately.  Faith gets hard in times when things aren’t happening fast enough for me, because I find myself entertaining questions like – Why isn’t God making this happen?  What did I do to make God angry? 

I would really, really like our house in Kansas to sell immediately, so Gina and I can make solid plans about getting our family back together here in Lafayette .  In my weaker moments, when I am tired and frustrated, and really struggling with it all….it is all too easy to be like a Pharisee, like the whining people of Israel , and say – What are you doing for me right now, God?

But to ask such questions….to expect God to take care of my wants and desires immediately, is to miss seeing all the countless little ways that God is present and active in my life on a daily basis.  To expect God to take care of my wants and desires immediately, is to treat God as some cosmic magician, who can and should wave a wand and say the right words and make something happen.  To expect God to take care of my wants and desires immediately, is to assume that I am in charge of creation, and that the world exists only for my purposes.                               

Our invitation today is to stop whining about what we want, or think we need, and expect God to provide for us instantly….To let go of our Pharisee-like list, and see all the ways that God is already present and active in the ordinary and mundane of our lives.

Now, I’m not saying this is an easy thing to do, for it is not.  But if we can do this, I believe we will be amazed….overwhelmed, by what we see and realize.  Our invitation today is also to share our knowledge; to let others know, others who are struggling just as much as we are, to let them know that God loves them too; that God is busy in their ordinary and every day also.                          

Instead of constantly living like we’re trying to find a parking spot before a soccer game, God invites us to enjoy the blessings of every days, large and small, and share these blessings with others as freely as we have received them.  That’s faith that is not hard……that I can do, that you can do…..

Let’s get busy!

Amen!!!