Disciples Are… Wise as Serpents, Innocent as Doves

More Than a Fence

Ezekiel 34.23-31   Matthew 10.5-16  

Central Presbyterian Church

Lafayette, IN

November 1, 2009

Dr. William M. Smutz

 

In the poem “Mending Wall”, Robert Frost describes the annual spring ritual

of walking with his neighbor along the stone wall that divides their property. Each man walks on his own side of the wall, and together they reset the stones that frost and snow and hunter and animal have displaced over the course of the past winter. As they tend to this chore, Frost asks his neighbor why they even bother to mend the wall. I only have apple trees, says Frost, and you only have pine trees. It’s not like they are going to cross over the wall and bother each other.

 

In utter seriousness the neighbor responds, ‘Good fences make good neighbors.’       

In utter seriousness the neighbor responds, “Good fences make good neighbors.”

 

Whether we know Frost’s poem or not, most of us have probably heard the line about fences and neighbors, and at some level many of us probably agree with it. There is something comforting about the separation and the clarity that a fence provides.

 

A fence makes clear where the boundary is, and whose side is whose; a fence offers privacy, and clarifies an area of responsibility – I rake the leaves in this area; a fence keeps some in and others out!                                    

 

When it comes to people, however, and our relationships with each other – our boundaries, for better or for worse, don’t come with fences. At least not the physical kind made of wood or plastic or chain link or wrought iron or barbed wire.

 

We do have boundaries, most of us… But they are emotional and relational and not physical. Kinds of behavior with which we are comfortable, and not comfortable. Situations in which we feel safe, and in which we squirm. Topics of conversation which we find acceptable, and those like sex and money and religion, and maybe even politics, which we frequently find less acceptable. 

 

For the most part  we have great difficulty with these less-tangible inner-personal boundaries. They’re not like a fence that can be seen and touched, and that clearly separates.

 

Our emotional boundaries are invisible and uncertain, and can change and shift as rapidly as our moods. And yet, as difficult as emotional boundaries are for us, I believe that having and maintaining healthy emotional boundaries is an important aspect of our discipleship.

 

For Jesus consistently displayed wise and appropriate and healthy and faithful emotional boundaries in his interactions with others. And as his disciples, we are called and expected to follow in his ways and steps.                              

 

In our Old Testament lesson, Ezekiel describes the shepherd-servant whom God will raise up to care for the people of Israel, and to care for all people everywhere. God’s good shepherd will bring order and justice and will protect the weak from the strong. God’s shepherd-servant will know who he or she is, and what she or he is suppose to do; and not be turned aside from God’s purposes by anyone else for any reason. The good shepherd will model the characteristics and qualities that God’s people –that disciples like you and me – are to embrace and to live out.    

           

Our Gospel lesson is a reminder that Jesus is the good shepherd-servant, and that our calling as disciples is to the world.

 

Jesus invites and expects us to be out among God’s people making a difference for good; to be speaking and demonstrating God’s love;  to be inviting others to join us on the never-ending and never-dull adventure of discipleship. 

 

As Jesus invites us out into the world, however, he invites us to leave behind part of who we are; he invites us to let go of those unhealthy emotional boundaries that give us so much trouble. Jesus invites us to let go of certain habits and  patterns of behavior that lead us to fence ourselves off from others instead of embracing them.                               

Jesus was always out among people who did not value his passions for God’s justice, and for sharing the love of God. He could have stayed away from such people, fenced himself off from such people, in order to remain pure and secure in his values. Jesus could have let the opinions and values of others sway him,

and change his focus to something less then God desired.

 

But Jesus was always clear about who he was, and what he was doing, and whom he served. And he continually invited those around him to be transformed through God’s love of them.                  

 

I believe our effectiveness and faithfulness as disciples is enhanced or limited by the emotional and relations boundaries that we embrace and practice toward others.

 

Does God define us, or do others?

 

Do we empower others to be in charge of their own life and their own faithfulness, or do we interfere by trying to do such things for them? Do our relationships with others create life and new possibilities for faithful living, or something less, something more like despair?                    

 

Embracing the example of Jesus, imitating the healthy emotional and personal boundaries he practiced, involves much, much more than simply building a fence around ourselves, around our families around our community or nation or church, and declaring that everyone on the inside is good, and everyone on the outside is bad or scary.

 

Our Gospel lesson ends with Jesus’ warning that when we go out into the world like he expects us to, we will be like sheep among the wolves…..And that we need to be wise as serpents and innocent as doves.                

 

Now, for sheep to survive when surrounded by wolves is something of a miracle. So I think Jesus is telling us that the only way to survive discipleship, is by always bringing the best we have to our relationships with others. To come to others knowing who we are, knowing that it is God whom we serve, and knowing that

we can be completely honest with all others –which I believe is the innocent as doves part. That we can be completely honest about the transforming love of God which we come to share, because Jesus is our example, and Jesus is our protecting presence. We can be among wolves and feel safe, because Jesus guides us and cares for us.       

 

Toward the end of  “Mending Wall”, Robert Frost worries about the offense given by the building of walls which fence some in, and fence others out. He suggests that those who build fences live in some kind of darkness, where fear and the need to be in control justify their actions.

 

Jesus invites us to be more than fence builders. Jesus invites us to live beyond our fears; to put aside every emotional boundary we can create, and reach out to all those around us with God’s amazing and transforming love.    

          

It’s time to go. God has need of us, and we are God’s people. 

It’s time to go. We are Jesus’ disciples for the world!

Amen!!!

 

© 2009 William M. Smutz