“The Blessings of Adversity”

Dr. Jeff Cover

Proverbs 30: 7-9, Luke 12: 13-24

Central Presbyterian Church

Lafayette , IN

April 20, 2008

 

So far in this series Bill has lead us through some poignant reflections on times when faith is hard

          --the shattering death of a loved one, when our wound seems incurable

          --moments when we recognize our dreams are being destroyed

          --times of wilderness, when we feel we’ve lost our way

This morning we’re looking at a completely different kind of threat to our faith—when things are going well!  Right now you might be thinking something along the lines of, “Well, Jeff, you’ve gone completely off the deep end now!  When things are going well, it’s easy to have faith, not at all like the hard times.  How could faith be hard when everything is going well?”

 

But how clearly I remember a turning point during a women’s Bible study at Preston Hills Presbyterian Church.  One of the women was talking about a particularly stressful time in her life, and she said, wistfully, “That’s the closest I’ve ever felt to God.”  The other women all nodded.  I wasn’t sure I’d heard her right.  I said, “Wait a minute.  Are you saying that it’s easier to have faith when things are going badly than when they’re going well?  That those are the times that have brought you closer to God?”  “Oh yes,” they all agreed.  When things were going well they tended to rely on their own resources, rather than upon God, they said.  It was a little moment of epiphany.  We all sat there in the quiet, pondering the strangeness of such blessings of adversity.

 

I remember something that a wise person once prayed: “Oh Lord, I have thanked you for my roses.  But have I never thanked you for my thorns?”  

 

I think of the words of our hymn,

 

“Come Sing to the Lord”, paraphrasing Psalm 30:

“In my success I felt secure

          How good you’ve been to me.

          I said that this is my own work,

          Ascribing all to me.”

          (Fred Anderson, 1986)

 

And suddenly these words from the hymn, “God of Our Life,” become especially clear:

          “When we are strong,

Lord, leave us not alone,

Our refuge be.”

(Hugh Thompson Kerr, 1916)

 

Oddly enough, it’s when things are “coming up roses,” when we’re strong, that things can get most dangerous for our faith.  It’s when things are going well, that we can forget our blessings, when we’re successful, that we can get off track.

 

We’re most likely to forget our Maker in those moments when life is going so clearly our way that we can imagine we’re “self-made people.”  Friends, there is no such thing!

 

One of the ironic truths of life is that when we’re awash with blessings, it’s easy to forget them.  It’s when we’re deprived of something that we notice its absence.  Think about it—it’s when we’ve stubbed our toe, that we notice our feet at all!  When our feet hurt, we notice them.  The rest of the time we just take them for granted.

 

The sayings of wisdom from Proverbs grasp something of this when they plea of the Lord:

          “Two things I ask of you;

          Do not deny them to me before I die:

Remove far from me falsehood and lying:

Give me neither poverty nor riches;

feed me with the food that I need,

or I shall be full, and deny you,

and say, ‘Who is the Lord?’

or I shall be poor, and steal,

and profane the name of my God.”  (Prov. 30: 7-9)

 

It’s not just that our wise man here is longing for a middle class existence.  The author of this saying is asking for deliverance from parallel temptations: the temptation to steal, because he doesn’t have enough, and the temptation to think he’s done it on his own, because he has too much!

 

In our passage from Luke today, Jesus is being approached to settle an inheritance dispute.  A fellow in the crowd asks Jesus to bid his brother to divide the family inheritance with him.  But Jesus will have nothing to do with it.  He refuses to get sucked into the argument.

 

Those of us who’ve been around families at times of death know that bereavement tends to bring out the best and worst in families.  There are often hard feelings around inheritance questions.

 

Jesus, instead, warns his listeners about the dangers of greed: “for one’s life does not consist in the abundance of possessions.”  And he went on to tell this story about a farmer who had such a bumper crop that he hardly knew what to do with it.  He built ever and ever larger barns, in order to hold his abundance, instead of figuring out a way to share some of what he had with those in need.  He said to himself, “Soul, you have ample goods laid up for many years; relax, eat, drink, be merry.” 

 

“But God said to him, ‘You fool!  This very night your life is being demanded of you.  And the things you have prepared, whose will they be?’  So it is with those who store up treasures for themselves but are not rich toward God.”  (Luke 12: 19-21)

 

Jesus also goes on to say, “Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.”  (Luke 12: 34)

 

So, what might it mean to be rich toward God?

 

Perhaps to invest in the things that God is interested in.  Out in the hallway, outside our Right Start Preschool door hangs this saying, “One hundred years from now it will not matter what sort of car you drove nor what sort of house you lived in, but one hundred years from now the world will be a better place because you made a difference in the life of a child.”

 

It’s that kind of investment that appeals to God—one that makes a difference in the life of one of his children.

 

God cares that our basic needs are met, that we have adequate shelter and enough to eat, and people to love us.  That’s why Jesus tells us it’s perfectly fine to pray for “our daily bread.”  But the endless accumulation of things is something Jesus warns us about.  Things aren’t enough to sustain us.  And the idea that by having enough stuff we can make our lives satisfying and worthwhile is an illusion.

 

So how do we live our daily lives in such a way that when things are going well, we don’t forget to live in faith?  How do we live our lives so that, on those occasions when things are going well, we remember the God who made and who daily sustains us?

In other words, how do we cultivate that sense of daily grace by which Jesus lived?

 

One way is by developing the habit of noticing something of what God is up to in the day-to-day.  A useful exercise for doing so was one developed long ago by a fellow named Ignatius.  He developed a useful spiritual practice of examining his day by looking at in terms of where he had noticed God and where he had missed God.  He called the places where he had noticed God at work, “consolations,” and the places where he had missed God, or drawn further away from God, “desolations.”

 

Try this little spiritual exercise at the end of your day if you’re a night owl, or at the beginning of the new day, if you’re a morning person.  Look back over the events of your life for the past 24 hours.  Pretend there’s a little 10-minute film entitled, “My Day.”  Review your day as if watching it.

 

Where were you pleasantly surprised?

 

Where did some moment of beauty strike you?

 

Where did some word from Scripture speak to your mind or heart?

 

Where did you find yourself singing some chorus of a praise song or hymn?

 

Where did a comment from someone give you encouragement or lend you   strength?  Where did some such comment come from you?

 

Where did you notice that someone needed your loving attention, and, by the grace of God, did you respond?

 

Where did God murmur some word of assurance to you?

 

Those are examples of consolations, those daily means by which God draws near to us.  To cultivate our ability to notice them, is to learn to have the eyes of faith.  It’s to be a faithful person when all is going well.

 

Give thanks to God for all such moments.

 

But notice, as well, where you might have drawn further away from God in your last 24 hours.

 

Try to notice the desolations of daily life, too:

 

--those places where the beauty of early spring was bursting out around you, and you failed to notice

 

--those moments when you allowed your imagination to be captured by a wayward thought, and so pulled away from God

 

--those instances when someone was reaching out to you, and you were too preoccupied to notice

 

--those opportunities when you might have offered an encouraging word or a helpful comment, and you neglected to do so.

 

The point is not to beat yourself up over them, but first, to notice them.  And then you ask God for forgiveness and pray for the insight and the resolve to do better in the next day.  That’s what it means to live by grace—to pay attention to what God is up to in the business of our daily lives, and then to work  with God, rather than at cross purposes.

 

Even when our lives are going well, we don’t want to forget the Author of our blessings.  Even when we don’t have the “blessings of adversity” to remind us of God, we want to recall that all our days are lived in light of God’s providence.  Amen.